As a certified hot girl, I feel the need to comment this.
Yes, we can be really superficial at times. BUT the superficiality is just a cover up for insecurity. We don't understand why guys go for the plain jane who doesnt even attempt to look good for them. We don't understand why guys treat us so bad. But we also know that we are genuine people and not ALL your everyday Regina George.
And to be honest, we usually have high standards because some guy hurt us so bad that we're afraid of being hurt again.
We DO like when guys approach us. We DO like the outgoing guys. And of course we like handsome men, but beauty isn't everything, and sometimes there is a guy who might not be as good looking as the next, but he sure does have a good personality and makes us happy, and thats who we ultimately want. And until we find that and he wakes up and realizes we are waiting on him, we'll continue to be single.
Yes, I know it must be hard approaching a girl who intimidates you, but chances are, shes waiting for you to come up to her. And if not, shes not worth your time anyway.
It has more to do with the men around them. Some guys won't ask out attractive women because they are intimidated; perhaps thinking she's already found someone, but more importantly; that someone has found her.
I consider myself to be pretty, many people have complemented me. But I am still single, only guys that I have no interest in, have asked me out, so sometimes I think am I really so terrible, ugly or something..?? I have become so pessimistic, I think I'll never find a good guy for me... And I don't want to lower my standards too just to be with someone....
Because a lot of man treat pretty girls like trash so they think every guy is like that
I would consider myself beautfiul, that's what everyone keeps telling me. To me I feel beautiful but not just because of my looks, but because I overcame so much obstacles in my childhood. People need to realize not all physically beautiful people feel it, it depends on ones childhood and if someone taught you to love yourself. Anyways, most men look whistle blow kisses wink at me, everything except approach me even when I am smiling back at them. I understand the whole rejection fear but just take a chance. I know most guys assume I am already taken and that's upsets me. I love good guys but I wish most weren't so shy. Beauty is an illusion! People have to stop thinking that way, were all human and beauty is just another way to discriminate. Men please be more fearless and make a move. Some pointers: View her as a friend instead of a possible date that will help take away some nervousness. Approach her by asking for the time, direction, something you would ask a stranger if help is needed, that will allow you to get close enough to figure out if she's nice or not. If she is ask her how she is doing with a warm smile. Compliment her and keep it moving, but not too far, go somewhere near by where she can still see you. If she is still looking after you've walk away it might mean she is interested, smile at her and see how she reacts. If she blushes or is smiling walk back and talk to her. So men be bold and fearless and go after the women you desire, but do not be to clingy, smile a lot, give unique compliments, give light non-sexual touches to guarantee you do not get placed in the friend place. Good luck.peace
I am also always single. I'm a pretty girl, I get the stares, the winks, but no one ever gets up and TALKS to you. Sometimes they send a friend to tell you "my friend wants to buy you a drink".... LAME. If you don't have the balls to approach me yourself you certainly can't handle me. The hot guys want to play games and the nice guys are too shy and insecure. Guys with their lines and lack of conversational skills are all over the place, its rare to have a guy who comes up to you and just talks to you like youre a normal person. I don't want some practiced regurgitation "eh, heh heh come here often, heh heh", its like really?? Thats the best youve got? I had a guy come up to me and say, "do you have italian in you" when I said no he said"want some?" After a moment I couldnt help cracking up and I talked to him a lot longer than I would have if he had said "come here often". At least I had never heard it, it was bold, it was funny, it was dirty, I didnt care. The fact that he had the nerve to approach me with it shot him right up the hotness meter....Its more about self confidence and connection imo.... All that smack I just wrote and.....yeah....I'm still single.
I'm a very pretty girl..Well I get told a lot so..I can have any single guy I want at the moment..Except for one so I stay single for him thats my situation,beauty is on the inside..& people are attracted to different things..She's not single because she's pretty just like anyone else on this earth she's waiting for the right guy..I'm not sure why but I love the thrill of the chase & not being able to have him handed on a plate..Like many other men who throw themselves at me..It's to easy! I like a man who is willing to take it slow get to know me for who I am really am not what I look like or if I'm Stunning or not",Not ones who skip the meaningful stuff & go straight for the bedroom!
Let's see. I don't think pretty girls are always superficial. I've been considered one of the prettiest girls in my town, and I'm a book lover. I don't really care about the looks, I always search for what's inside people. I'm 17 years old and, yes, I've always been single. I don't really know why, maybe because I'm afraid of letting people in - but that's not because I feel better than other people, it's because I'm afraid of getting hurt and, mostly, of being used. No one ever told me 'I love you', no one ever wanted to have a serious relationship with me. It's not because of my looks, not because of my personality, I guess I'm the type of girl that is alone and nobody knows why. Everyone believes that this is my option because I can have any guy that I want - it's not like that. I can have them, but then what? I'm not looking for a one night stand. And, with this age, it's what every guy wants. To fuck and, then, go away. With this age, guys only want bitches, only someone to waste time with - guess they aren't ready to face a real women. Whatever will be, will be. If not, whatever.
(ps. I'm not english nor american, sorry for any mistake.)
I'm attractive, thanks to Gods blessings, but I am very lonely. I have had 2 boyfriends ever and 29 years old. No man has ever actually asked me out. I fancy shy guys and they are always taken :(
I'm currently deeply in love with a shy man but he has a girlfriend. And the shyness he shows me when we talk tells me he likes me....feel like dying :(((
Because they just havent found the right person.or in previous relationships they got treated like crap and don't want to go through it again
Because of people always thinking than too pretty to be single so don't even bother to strike a conversation fearing they will be rejected
I think people can be intimidated by attractive people...They become unapproachable..
I am gorgeous. People always compliment me. But guys always seem to ask the ugly girls out first and in the end, I'm the single one. Only jerks ask me out. So I'm still single at 17.
I'm usually single because I'm hung up on a someone or a situation that isn't working out. Sucks, but that is just the way it is. The current "one" is now dating another very pretty lady so I'm starting to lose feelings for him fast. My heart will be open for a very short time before it settles on someone else.
Because they are choosier. They don't like to just take any guy because they know they can get anyone. So majority loves to play hard to get.
Well most of them are single because they also get hurt like the other females do...There isn't a difference..smoe pretty girls are single...and so are the not so pretty ones..
There are definitely so many reasons for that... With me it's just that I have trouble liking guys, and when I finally do find someone, there is always something getting in the way. It's very frustrating because people always go "but you're soooo prettyyyyy" and I just say that "CLEARLY that hasn't gotten me very far". Currently the guy I like just happens to really like my close friend. Great, and just my luck.
Maybe pretty ladies are waiting for someone to come alone and swipe them of your feet
Because the pretty girls go for the asshole guys and not the nice guys they deserve...
Because they are always meet a better men from time to time.
Because some of them are jerks and some of them just don't take the time to realize the good guys arent getting a fair chance
And well, let's face it, while this doesn't always apply, beautiful people tend to be jerks most of the time. They are used to being able to get whatever they want, and have become very good at manipulating people. Sadly, and again this isn't all the time, the prettier a person is; the more toxic they are. (Healthy) People don't really want to get mixed up with that.
Sometimes, the pretty ladies don't physically go out with one person because she likes to have so much attention. If she had a boyfriend, then all the men who follow her round drooling won't bother 'cause they'd know they wouldn't have a chance if she'd already found someone.
Hope This Helps :-)
Let me see I would consider myself to be a beautiful young lady but I'm not single. I guess the pretty ladies are single because they want to be single oir maybe they just tell you that so they don't have to bother with the hassell and basel that goes on with having more than one boyfriends.
They have nothing to worry about when it comes to finding someone because of looks so they wait for the perfect person in there eyes. And then they may prefer that the other person is single too!
Because they take men for granted and always dump every guy they date
Because they choose to be that way.
Because they like to stay single and keep thier options open... They don't like to be strapped to just one guy.. Then again who cares.. Pretty girls get anything they want.. It doesnt matter...
Pretty ladies get what they want, they don't have to do anything really. So they use guys like strippers. Give them money then they throw you out of your lives. Boom boom done.
1) Standards too high
2) Can't find a man to put up with their attitudes.