I had been seeing this guy and he broke things off because he said his feelings had changed but now he is telling our mutual friends that we are close and figuring things out. What does this mean?

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Yin And Yang answered

It means he is confused. You HAVE to accept what he says to you as what it is.... Not what he says to everyone else. It is/was you and him in the relationship... Not them.

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He sounds a bit unstable. I'd be peeved if he was treating me like an on/off switch thru a third party.

Is he seriously letting you know he's feeling remorse over the break-up by telling mutual friends instead of to you directly (?)

If he hasn't said it directly to you, don't believe a thing thats supposedly been said.

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Jenna McCready
Jenna McCready commented
He did say it to me because I had asked what he said to this friend and he told me. He tells me all the time how much he values me and i don't feel used at all my only confusion comes from the phase figuring it out. We both lead busy lives so we may just need a period of adjustment before continuing the relationship
Yin And Yang
Yin And Yang commented
It sounds like he is keeping a string attached to you to keep you dangling around because you are his "safe girl." He will do with what he is gonna do with another chick then when he is done with her he will string you back. He probably thinks of you as "marriage material" or the one he "takes home to mama." Only YOU know how much you are willing to take. Good luck.
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mary adam answered

It means his lying to one of you. Trust what he has said to you and move on, don't let him play games because he can't be honest.  Don't over analyse it he has told you that he doesn't want to be with you, what was the reason?

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Darren Wolfgang answered

If he broke it off with you that tells you one thing. He is not wanting the same thing as you and he does not want a commited relationship with you also you need to ask yourself if your going to wait around for him or do you want a man who knows what he wants in life. Myself i think your better off looking for a guy who knows what he wants out of life and not string you along cause that could happen.

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