She stares at me every time I see her.I smile and wave.She smiles back.We've had small talk.I've had her on social media.I messaged but she said this after a few messeages, "Not to be mean but why the random message".I replied but she didnt.I dont understand?


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Pepper pot Profile
Pepper pot answered

We have no idea what you messaged her so this question is difficult to respond to.

Danae Hitch Profile
Danae Hitch answered

If you've never actually spoken to her then I can see why she would ask that. Try talking to her in person - without using your phone - and then ask her if she would mind if you messaged her. Having an eyeball-to-eyeball conversation with her changes things.

It gives you a tangible connection. In addition, when you think of her, you will be able to bring up an image of her from your last conversation. You can't get that thru messaging.

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