Ever since I got my job at chick-fil-A last week my dad has been treating me like crap. Dont undersand his problem?

You should be asking him this. Then maybe you could give us something to work with, but otherwise that's all the juice I got!

Sorry about your troubles, but if you guys cant communicate you wont be able to solve it.

OK, this is not a "repeat question"---it's a separate issue from the previous one.

I think I understand it perfectly.

And I'm going to be your defense lawyer pro bono.

He thinks he has the right to control your life---even though you are 18.

You're not running your life according to wishes.  He's upset and pouting---and he's taking it out on you.

He should have been working himself out of a job as a parent when you reached the "age of majority."  The factory is closing and he still wants to keep his job.

I hope you are getting married for reasons other than simply getting our of your current environment---but I would understand if that was a significant motivation.

It's true that every parent will make some mistakes, I too bad that some of them are this serious.

Hang in there.

We don't know your father, so we can't tell you what his problem is. I suggest you sit down with him and calmly have an adult discussion.

he wants a chick fil a sandwich