How would you feel if a daycare worker had been nursing your baby without asking for your permission first? Do you think it's wrong? If so, what would you do about it?

That would be totally wrong on her part. I would raise royal hell about it.

It's not only extremely wrong but I think it boarders, at least, on pedophilia . . . And I would treat it as such.

Nursing causes contractions in the uterus and some stimulation

Nursing a baby exposes the baby to whatever the mother has for illnesses - virus's, drugs in their systems . . Etc. 

While they "say" intentions were good, the motivations are both wrong, immoral and illegal.  She should be prosecuted and run through a barrage of tests to see what your baby might have been exposed to.

Perhaps a little perspective might be useful.

The historical evolution of infant feeding includes wet nursing, the feeding bottle, and formula use. Before the invention of bottles and formula, wet nursing was the safest and most common alternative to the natural mother's breastmilk.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2684040/

But without permission---I would be shocked if it were my child.

What would I do?---well I would probably talk to my pediatrician first to see whether if you had chosen wet nursing for your child, there is any current information in today's world about any potential risks or precautions if you were in fact seeking to use a "wet nurse."

And since your pediatrician may well be more familiar with the regulations (I'm sure it's got to be illegal for her to have done so without your permission) perhaps he can advise you as to how to proceed.

That's all I can think of. Beyond that, I don't know how I'd proceed yet.  (I'm a man, by the way.)

I am sorry but I think I would have to kill her. I nursed all four of my children and the special bond that goes along with it can not be put into words. I guess that is the one thing I am extremely possessive about. I never put my kids in day care and I am glad this thought never entered my mind during moments when I had to consider day care. SMH!

I would be removing my child from that daycare. I would file a formal complaint with the licensing board. And I would be asking for a drug test and a signed medical affidavit from that person. There is also a good chance I would I would be going to local news outlets so other may know about it in case their child may have been exposed as well.

I do understand that it is rare for a disease to be passed through breast milk. However, if the person is making this poor decision, I have, question what other poor decisions they are making and exposing my baby too. Most states regulate breast milk when it does not come from the mother.

This is so very wrong here especially since you know nothing or very little of this womans medical background and a lot of diseases and infections are passed onto a baby via breastfeeding so this is just looking for an accident to happen. Her intentions may be good but she should have asked first and answered all your questions but it may already be too late here  for your baby. I pray not!  This woman should not have ever taken a chance like this without asking so this shows her level of maturity too.  Now you best start asking all sorts of questions and be prepared to let the Babys DR know all of this too so he can run tests to clear the Baby.  Good luck

That is wrong and presumptuous of the daycare that they could take those liberties with a baby.  If they think it's a good idea .. They would let the mother know beforehand and get written permission.  A parent wouldn't know how healthy that nursing daycare worker is .. For one thing!  I would immediately remove my child from their care and report them to the proper authorities.