Yep ... I pull people in easily cos I have a knack for that ... Then I push them away cos I don't wanna let anyone get too close to me again .. I have a knack for pushing people away too. I'm very "knacky" that's a word.
Not after I turned 50. I stop "Helping" and"Giving" to people. Stupidity Gone.
If someone ask for "Anything" I say I'll pray 🙇for you. They say OH forget. I agree forgotten.
Not really. The one thing I still do on occasion is lend money to a relative. I never lend more than I can afford to lose and once they don't pay back they never get anymore. On my side of the family my husband and I run about 50%. On his side of the family it is much less.