Well pilgrim, lot's of people think I'm a cowboy and don't understand ! Imagine that? How could they misunderstand that ?
My family (Both mine and my in-laws) think I have no fear. That isn't it at all. I just realize it doesn't matter when something needs to be done, you have to do it whether you are afraid or not. So I don't waste time or energy on the fear.
That I'm the poster child for being anti- social. I don't talk, socialize or smile very much.
People think I'm mean, because I don't deal with lying, liars, deceit, drama and If ask I sweeten it but tell the truth or just say no.
I'm not as fragile as I appear! I never understood where people get that but that's ok. People will be people!
They think that my unsmiling face hides a heart of gold.
Bad mistake.
That being shy is not the same as being anti-social. I don't LIKE to be alone all the time. I just find it difficult to initiate things with people.
I never give up
Mistake my directness and abruptness for rudeness, it's not, I just like plain talking so people don't have to second guess or work out what I'm trying to say, "beating around the bush." I don't like this in others, although I'm tolerant of it because most people communicate in this manner.
My being friendly as someone who is social, I'm not, I enjoy meeting people but I don't necessarily want to carry that on any further. There's often a greater freedom in speaking to someone you have no intention of speaking to again. I have a few people that I enjoy hanging out with, and who I do not feel the need to put on any airs and graces for, that'll do me.
The one thing I think people misunderstand about me is that they think I'm cocky and vain as' I think that's unfair because I'm very self confident and I like that about myself ...I really like who I am and It took me along time to get there... But that does not mean I think Ii am better than any one ... I'm sexy and I know it :p