I'm not sure, you'd have to ask my kids.
I did my best as a young married and later a single parent.
'Cool' parents beware...you may end up with your 'cool' kids depending on you when they're adults if you spoil your kids too much.
Raise them to be 'cool' about doing their part.
Well, that was certainly my intent and goal.
Fortunately, my children think so---they grew up to be fully functional adults.