I have an 18 year old male coworker who brags about dating a 25 year old woman. Is he lying or what? Why is he bragging about it when I don't care?

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Matt Radiance Profile
Matt Radiance answered

You care, you care enough to relieve yourself by asking a question about it. If you don't care, why does it matter whether he's lying or not ? Live your life & let him say whatever he wants. If it's bothering, tell him to stop talking about it. But nope. It taken your attention somehow, & it made your mind busy by any reason. Otherwise you wouldn't ask this question.

Now, it could be a lie, it could be a truth, doesn't really matter, but since you care, legally it's fine cause the guy is 18 & he's in legal age & he can date anyone he wants. & the girl's age is also completely out of the discussion. A complete grown girl.however age never determined the "Maturity" I can make an example of grown people that have the most false information & the most childish behavior. & this relation or claim of relation is not that odd. I've seen plenty of examples that 18-20 years old, dating & even marrying 24-30 years old. Love is love. Love doesn't care about numbers such as age, height or weight. & if it be even a simple dating between these two. Yet, this is their will, & they can do whatever they want. It's not something out of sense or odd. It's normal & it's their own business.

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Kaitlin Bagwell
Kaitlin Bagwell commented
I did tell him to stop but he's one of those guys who doesn't care. If I say stop doing something he still does it
Matt Radiance
Matt Radiance commented
I assume you need to be harder & stronger on your statement. makes it clear that he's annoying you.
Bikergirl Anonymous Profile

If you 'didn't care' you wouldn't be bothered to even ask about .. Personally I would find it irritating that he feels the need to 'brag' about it .. THAT is just so demeaning to the girl he's dating .. Which reflects negatively on HIM, not her.

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Craig Marshall answered

Sounds to me like he trying to get with you. Why else would he go on about people you don't even know? Unless he wants you to like him too. Do you want to get with him too?

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