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I was cuddling with my bf (he's 18 and I'm younger) he had his hand resting on my leg, he was just gently rubbing it with his thumb.. I didn't mind. The longer we sat there tho, the closer his hand got to my crotch is that okay?

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Cookie Roma Profile
Cookie Roma answered

If you don't really know where this will almost certainly lead, you're too young to be in a relationship.

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Dakota  Mackenzie
Dakota Mackenzie commented
Not to be rude bit I'm sure they knew where it was leading >.> They just didn't seem to know if it was okay, with age included and stuff like that, I'm guessing (:
Cookie Roma
Cookie Roma commented
My point exactly. If you don't know these things you don't need to be on this (or perhaps any) relationship.
Dakota  Mackenzie
Dakota Mackenzie commented
Gotcha c:
Frederick Fisk Profile
Frederick Fisk answered

I don't know. You decide if that's okay. And be sure to TELL him if it's not. You know how men are usually bad at taking hints. Straight out telling one to stop is the best way to go.

mohammad mahmoudi Profile

He's a little rude I think! But if you think it's okay it's okay!

if you think it's not...it's not. My opinion is a big...SLAP.

Alyssa Bryan Profile
Alyssa Bryan answered

Talk about it with him. He may be making sexual advances on you. You=A Minor. Which can be illegal. If he is tell him that is not allowed. He'll get the picture.

If he's not doing it intentionally, then maybe he doesv what I do. Sometimes while writing for school, I'll blink and realize I just wrote half my assignment on the table. Sometimes hands just drift.

Just remember, Consent is key.

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