You've got a bit to learn about women, and about relationships.
You don't LET her do anything. She has a mind of her own. She doesn't need your permission.
You've got a bit to learn about women, and about relationships.
You don't LET her do anything. She has a mind of her own. She doesn't need your permission.
Yes, My girlfriend is free to go anywhere she likes.Because she's my girlfriend not my personal stuff, I don't own her & she's a very independent human being. She can decide to do anything she likes & hang with anyone she wants.
The first foundation of relationship is "Trust" & "Respect" . We trust each other, I have so many females friends as well, is she worried? Nope, friends means friends, these things are something we never even consider to have problems with, It's a lol.
But if we get uncomfortable with someone we hang with by any reason, We don't order each other, We don't ban,We won't yell.We request each other & express our discomfort. Sit & talk like mature people & in the end, for the sake of each other, we decide what's right to both feel comfortable in the same time.
She can stay with anyone she wants to. What makes you think you're the boss of her? She can go anywhere she wants, anytime she wants and she doesn't need your permission.
No wonder you are 'anonymous' with a question like this!
You do not own your girlfriend. She is not your object or your slave. The idea that a guy can own a girl and control her actions is the primary reason that guys and husbands get dumped. It's guys who feel that they have a right to control girls that live long rage-filled lives filled with loneliness.
You need to modernize your thinking if you expect to have relationships with girls and women.
You can't control anyone a lot ,even if she's your girlfriend! She can go anywhere she wants to go .if your Gf is smart she does not go to a place that is not fit for her..! If you're afraid that the guy may rob your girlfriend you need to trust people that your girlfriend trusts..! To be honest everything depends on your girlfriend .she can do anything good or bad ..! Don't take it hard anyway
She doesn't need your permission to go spend time with a friend without you. Your trust issues are your problem, not hers.
Keep on trying to tell her where she can and can't go and with whom, and you'll be single again soon enough.
Yes because they've obviously been friends for some time. If she wanted to be with him she wouldn't be with you because it would send the wrong message. If he wanted to be with her then the awkwardness would have ended the friendship. What you are saying is you don't trust your girlfiend so your relationship is doomed to failure. You don't have to trust the male friend just your girlfriend, as she is in control of what she does and doesn't do. If she doesn't feel insulted by being told you do not trust her, then the controlling will be a turn off. She is choosing to be with you. Women value their friendships, you are saying she must end her friendship to be with you because you do not trust her, so do not be surprised when she see's the controlling and runs a mile.
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