My husband keeps his phone away from me lately and looks guilty when a message comes through. How do I find out what's going on without actually touching his phone?

Try asking him, straight up! Tell him you've noticed this and are concerned about it, it may be nothing! Don't make a mountain out if a mole-hill!

Hello,

It can be a very tricky and delicate matter when you suspect your partner may be cheating on you. First of all, kudos to you for not going through his phone. This is often the mistake a lot of women make that gets them into more trouble than it is worth. So you are very right to be looking for an alternative way of uncovering the truth.

Before you take any other measures, it is definitely most important to communicate with him directly. There is a chance he may just tell you the truth. Even if he does decide to lie, if you know your husband well enough you can probably tell he is doing exactly that.

If this doesn't work, try seeking advice from the people around you, such as mutual friends and/or his family. They may be privy to some information that you are not aware of. Ultimately, he will have to come clean at some point if he is guilty, but if he insists that he is not cheating on you and that he loves you, you may just have to trust him.

I hope this helps.