How do I find a considerate woman that will let me dress fem (probably maidy) and let me do their housework? They all think there has to be a sexual angle and there just isn't. I'm near Bristol UK?

Put an ad in the post for cleaning houses. When you get calls go see them. When you find the right one take it for free. Show up the first week dressed like a guy, then slowly change over to your maid outfit.