There is no friend zone. If a woman is attracted to someone and feels that person would make a good partner, she’s not going to stick him in the friend zone for life, is she?
What you think of as the friend zone is the “I’m just not that into you” zone and there are many reasons she might not be interested – these might or might not have anything to do with you.
Many women appreciate the company of men and not necessarily in the romantic way, but this doesn’t mean their friends can’t make the leap to romantic partner.
Calling it a “friend zone” implies that there is this invisible barrier between potential mate and “buddy” that you might cross at any time, without knowing it, and never be able to return. This isn’t the case.
Most guys don’t want to jump into bed with every woman they see – the same goes for women. The “friend zone” is just a nice, albeit somewhat strange, way of getting the point across that a woman isn’t attracted to a guy.
Women aren’t attracted to certain guys for many reasons, just as guys aren’t attracted to certain women for a variety of reasons. Sometimes, it something as small as the way a person dresses, while at other times, it’s got to do with someone’s sense of humour.
Ultimately, though, it is a primal thing. We are attracted to people simply because we are attracted to them. Sometimes the reasons are obvious, while at other times we can’t explain it. The friend zone is just another way of saying there is no attraction.
