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I really like the girl. I like her a lot. I know that she likes me, but she hasn't really said it to my face. I think she is nervous but I really want to be her boyfriend. I really really like her! Please?

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Lia Tan Profile
Lia Tan answered

Start to flirt with her a lot. Show to her that you care about her and that you want to be her. This should be subtle but obvious enough that she would know. I can't exactly tell you how to do this because it is an art that you'll have to learn to master on your own. But experiment and see what works and what doesn't.

When you two are alone and not watched by people, start having deeper conversation. Ask her questions about herself and get to know her more. Do this several times if you can. Then one day when you're alone, tell her your feelings. Don't pressure her to say anything back or do anything. Just tell her how you feel and wait for her reaction. If she says that she likes you back, then yay! If she rejects you, then don't go off getting all mad. Be calm and say something like "okay, I understand. It's no problem." This will show that you are mature. And when you're alone, you can go ahead and cry or whatever it is you do when you're upset.

I hope things work out well for you. Good luck!

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angie zhang answered

That is AWESOMEEE man this makes it so much easier , firstly you know what if you guys haven't spoke to each other before , approach her like a friend and talk to her about normal stuff , don't do anything to humiliate her , be friendly and nice , get to know her more , be honest with her , girls really don't like being lied to , treat her special and try to give her hints you like her too , if she seems to get more comfortable and not so nervous with you , then you can ask her out . GOOD LUCK :)

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RICK MATA
RICK MATA commented
I totally agree with you Angie. The worst thing he could do is come on too strong. Be subtle and let her know once rapport is built you are interested. Simple invite for coffee or my personal favorite frozen yogurt are great first dates. Good luck
angie zhang
angie zhang commented
haha yes exactly :) all girls are different so don't always guess that girls only like to go shopping or want guys to give them something expensive like perfume or something , giving some signs or hints can make it easier for her to guess that maybe you like her too , and being caring and considerate like .. maybe she went home today cos she was sick You can ask her if shes alrite and say I hope your okay ! it really makes a difference :)
Amanda Layne
Amanda Layne commented
I like the frozen yogurt idea Rick, noone has ever taken me out for frozen yogurt or ice-cream :(( my last date was a rugby game how boring is that>!>!

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