I'm sure you now what whipped as in bearting is but I think you are referring to a guy saying someone is whipped is referring to a guy letting the girl control the relationship. Blowing off your friends to be with her. It's just a form of teasing,.
Well when it comes to physically being whipped...I think you know what that means. It means being severely whipped with a belt, or any object of that nature. When a boy tells another boy that he's whipped, they are telling them that they do everything the girl wants them to, and he's too attached to her....which means he's digging her.
Beat severely with a whip or rod
Thrash about flexibly in the manner of a whiplash
Whip with or as if with a wire whisk
Subject to harsh criticism
Above is the response of your query. Thanks for asking