There are a lot of advantages and disadvantages associated of having a big or large family. The major disadvantage is that you tend to lose patience and peace of mind in the large family. You could not concentrate on your kids and can not allocate proper time for them. Household becomes difficult and if there are some monetary problems, it can create a mess.
Families with lots of children can mean that the parents do not give equal time or attention to each child, and may overlook a quieter child as they have noisier, naughtier children to deal with. Children can become emotionally neglected because of this. Also, a large family will not have as much money as a one-child family because they will be paying for more people.
There are many disadvantages of having large family such as in big families' children have to share room.
I call it the sibling drag. Can be quite frustrating for individual freedom. Not to mention the fights. Being made to wait for long times at restaurants because they don't have a table big enough for you yet! Want to know more, just ask someone who currently lives in a large family.
Well, I come from a big family. 8 kids including me. I am the oldest and only girl, so I have 7 younger brothers. I wouldn't be without any one of them! I love being in a big family! The idea took some getting use to because for years, it was just me and the eldest of the boys. Then the rest came along. So we were so use to it being just the two of us. But, nevertheless, I wouldn't have it any other way. Who needs friends when you practically live with so many siblings that you have your own fan club?! LOL! Being a part of a big family is AWESOME!
Disadvantage of large family
The parents can't care of all children if they have a lot and spending more too on them .
The advantage of a big family is never being lonely and when someone pick on you, your sibling are there to help you out.
I have just lost another sibling out of 9..... Losing a brother and a sister so suddenly at such early age due to illness is devastating, painful and confusing...I could well do without a large family than to see the pain in faces of my living ones when when they hurt and I hurt to say goodby to the ones we lost in space of just few years.
How much more of it is going to come my way...who is next?...how do I console my mum...when will her tears stop,,,, can anyone take her pain away?...big family> NO
How much more of it is going to come my way...who is next?...how do I console my mum...when will her tears stop,,,, can anyone take her pain away?...big family> NO
You have a lot of support from your elders in your families