jay cesar answered question 10/18/2011 If it's 12:30 am and your chatting a guy (who you might happen to like) and he says "You have a cross country meet tomorrow, you better get some sleep" what does this mean? Is this his way of saying he's done talking to you or does he actually care? Both. He may be trying to show he cares but also may br tired as hell and wants to get some sleep. More than likely its both!