Teenagers have been doing this since before you were even born!
A teen might do drugs or drink for many reasons. Someone in their family does it, peer pressure, bullying, problems at home, loneliness, etc..
Dating has many of the same reasons. Teens who live with one parent, and don't know the love of a mom or dad, go looking for it in other people. This is why it's very important for both parents to be loving to their children. Maybe the teen feels his/her parents are over protective or doesn't pay enough attention to them, so they go and fall in love to rebel against the parents or seek the attention they need.
Being rude falls in the same categories as well. Has anyone ever told you about the bully being mistreated at home and that's why he mistreats people at school? It's the same thing with teens. The parents are teaching their children to be rude by not placing them with the right punishments.
Now, don't think ALL teens are like this, there are many reason out there why a teen acts the way he/she acts. For example, dating at a young age isn't the worst thing in the world. Teens are going through puberty and have high hormones, it's the time in a teens life when they start noticing what attracts him/her. Not all love is fake when you're a teen, my aunt and uncle fell in love at thirteen and are happily married to this day.
There are many reasons why teens are how they are, it's their job to realize the mistakes they are making while growing up, unfortunately, many don't. So instead of judging them, help them out by telling them what's right and what's wrong. Even if they don't listen, you just planted the idea in their memory, and they'll remember it when the time comes.