I've been dating a man for a year now. He has 6 kids with his ex. According to him he hasn't been intimate with his ex in 5 years. But at first he said she couldn't know about us (he said she would try to fight me and keep kids away). She is supposedly in a 4 year relationship with another man. Now we live together, she lets him come see the kids. Today he says he's gonna spend time with the kids but tells me to drop him down the block to avoid conflict. Is it me or is something not adding up?