Because of your pale skin avoid anything that is going to drain more colour from your face. No pale lemons, blues or pinks. And certainly not Ivory. Either go for a deep but not bold colour, or stick to traditional white with colour satin ribbons added. Anyway when you go looking for your dress you will know the one for you as soon as you try it on. Hope your big day will be all it should be. Oh, and the bridesmaid dresses could match the satin on your dress.