All of these issues are really hard for women to understand. The things that make a woman look beautiful to a man are often very mysterious and perhaps not logical -- and VERY, VERY STRONGLY CHANGE from one man to the next. I remember arguing with my frat brothers in college over the swimsuit edition of Sports Illustrated. Women that made my socks melt they thought were plain. And women they thought were hot, I couldn't care less about. Women really need to understand that what guys find attractive IS NOT THE SAME from one man to the next! Most men like larger breasts. Some men will say guys like them small, but that is a minority view I think. However, that does not really tell the true story at all. There are so many things about a woman that are beautiful based on "how it all fits together" -- NOT ISOLATED PARTS. And because nature programmed men to like women (and vice versa) THINGS THAT DON'T SEEM ATTRACTIVE TO YOU -- BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT A GUY -- may make his heart stop when he sees you. SO, generally speaking guys are "fascinated" (that is they NOTICE at first) bigger breasts. But a woman can also be very, very beautiful based on the delicate softness of her small breasts, the way they curve, the gentleness or sensitivity, etc. FURTHERMORE, to an extent 100 times more than women realize, a woman becomes beautiful also by the way she smiles, laughs, acts with energy,and comes alive. Women may think "oh, come on! That can't make a big difference." YES, it does. It even surprises me as a man. I may see a woman who looks very beautiful -- but mostly because she is smiling, happy, full of life, bouncing around, etc. When she stops smiling I realize that she is actually quite plain. But it doesnt' seem that way. In other words, NATURE DESIGNED MEN TO ENJOY REAL WOMEN, WHO ARE ALIVE, IN 3 DIMENSIONS, not just a STATIC 2 dimenionsal image. A woman in motion is more attractive than a snapshot frozen in time.
