Why my (guy) best friend became such a rude person?

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Amanda Layne answered

He suddenly switched on you? Haha this happened to me recently too! Turns out he was attracted to me and became jealous when I mentioned that I liked someone else... Maybe the same thing has happened to you?

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Mercy Lipesik commented
Well that was kind of a long story hehe.
There were 7 of us, 4 girls including myself, and 3 guys including himself (they're so close like brothers) we've been friends for 7 years now. The other 2 guys are friendly, and playful and funny, but well I do think the way they being playful with me is kind of too much but since I saw 6 of them laughed when they did that, so I learned to live with it (also, I told them like a thousand times but they never listened) as that's how they are, I have to accept them that way, like they accept me for who I am lol.

And...I didn't talk too much to him this 7 years as he was kind of an introvert, but very out spoken. I thought he didn't like me too much, so I kept my distance from that former popular guy in high school. Then, I last Thursday he visited me at home as I catched cold-alone. He never did things like that before. And we talk talk talk until I mentioned his brothers from another parents lol, then he surprised me with his reactions. He asked, why I've always ignored him like he was never exist? Why I never asked how he's been and what I can do to help him like I always did to the other 5? And so on...

I've never seen him like that before. Thought he knew everything between the 2 guys and me, that we were just friends (for 7 years!). Why did he got angry like it's just happened recently? Guess not just guys find girls complicated, but otherwise as well, eh?lol
Amanda Layne
Amanda Layne commented
Guys are MUCH MORE complicated than girls lol :-)
I think it sounds like he has had feelings for you for a while. Maybe he was just too shy or scared to do something about it? But even though he has been too scared to say anything before, seeing you with other guys has made him too jealous and he finally spoke to you.

What are you planning to do next?

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