Is it okay to lose your virginity at 13? My boyfriend really wants to have sex with me, but I'm worried something will go wrong..

Ok all of the other people who have commented are probably way older than you. I'm 13 too, and I found my self asking the same question recently, so I went to my bff who lost it really young, and she told me this;

ignoring the fact that it's illegal, you have to be ready for it. If you rush into something that you don't think your ready for, chances are you're not ready for it, and you'll get hurt. But if you do think you're ready, and you really love him, try and tell him that you don't want to. If he drops you, then you know he isn't worth it. If he still loves you, tell him ok and go for it. There shouldn't be an age limit on giving yourself to some one you love, but there is because of stupid girls and boys that get themselves/ partners pregnant before they can't handle a baby! So if you do decide to, make sure you use protection.

13?!  No, it is not okay!  Seriously, you need to dump that boyfriend of yours.  He has absolutely no right to pressure you into having sex at your age.  You are not mature enough to handle the responsibility or the consequences.  You are wise to be worried.  What about AIDS or you getting pregnant.  Then, what?????  PLEASE!!! Think before you leap and have many regrets!!!

There is a bond that happens when two people become intimately connected with each other. To have sex with someone that you are not planning on spending your life with is setting yourself up to be hurt in the end. Save it until you are in a relationship that you know is going to last. If he doesn't understand that than he is definately not someone you want to give yourself to. Besides all that, it's illegal for a reason. Not just because of the chances of immature people getting pregnant before they can handle it, but because of the psychological damage it can do to young people that didn't fully understand the impact that intimacy with another person would have on them.

Okay I was 17 when I had my baby, I used a condom & still got pregnant 13 is still so young but just make sure you're ok with it.

It is against the law hunn... You shouldnt be pressured by
this boy and things could go wrong! If he does pressure you he could get I. Trouble and if you did agree to having sex. Even if you are both okay with it your parents could have him arrested!

No I really wouldn't! I gave into someone when I was 15. I'd been with him for over a year, and thought we were going to last. And then a few months later we broke up and it hurt a hell of a lot more than it would have if I hadn't shared so much of myself with him. Please don't give yourself to someone unless you are sure it will last.

If you are educated, and you can make a mature decision, it is your right to. If you do not want to, if you don't think it's worth the risk or you don't trust him enough or etc., don't. If you meet these criteria it is perfectly ok if you are willing to make the risk. I wouldn't at 13 but that's me. If you're worried, say no and just wait!

Okay I'm just a few years older than you and I know what it's like to be in your position and honestly theres no way I would ever expect anyone to wait till they are married but at least wait a few years and wait until they really love you and are willing to wait for you.

You too young to do that. There a lot of things you can do aside of having sex with your boyfriend. My advice on you break your boyfriend.

Never agree if you're under 18 and you're not married that means you can't have sex so Sammie lee is right it is against the law, so don't do it!!

You need to be ready don't let him push you to do something you are not ready for :)

I am thirteen too and I think it's the stupidest thing ever :) NO NO NO NO NO