I personally would not paint oak cabinets, but since you want to (if they have a gloss,you strip them of the shine first or the paint wont go on smoothly, primer and paint.  If they arent then you have to primer them first, then use the color you want. If you want to just re-stain … Read more

No, buy a new one

Because you were available to him, now you r not, so he knows you moved on, let him move on, sounds like a jerk anyway, just ignore him.

Depends on how long you've known them. If you just met, then you r in lust. When years go by and you are still in lust , then you're in love.