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How Do I Find 'The One'?

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Anonymous answered
examine your own life, look at exactly what makes you complete, never compromise yourself, change for someone and they do not love YOU, never expect to change anyone else either. Love, real love grows from an attraction, it is nurtured and cared for until it is a true mature love, honesty and trust, friendship and companionship, passion and attraction, comfort and familiarity, remember true love is rarely discovered in a club or bar, and when it arrives it will amaze you when you realise it is with you. I believe everyone has more than one "ONE" I am widowed once and divorced once, and am again in love, and hope to spent forever in someones arms. patience, I did not look for it, it found me, I just remain open to the possibility that it can happen.
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Stand up, put your hands in the air, spin round three times chanting 'bubbles are bubblier than bill' then when you collapse from dizziness, you'll see what they look like xD
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True about letting it come your way. I believe that there is a person out there for everyone and when the time is right you will know. Another thing is even though at times you might think otherwise I believe it's true. "Every love has a Great story" NOTE: "Every"
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By just waiting make friends with the one it might be(the one you think it might be) and if its not suck it up and be brave your one is just around the corner you have to get a grip, or else you will have no one that is only the facts I'm not tryng to be mean or anything but you gave to give it a rest at whining and be brave and suck it up!then just wait be patient and your one will come if you be patient and be brave and kind and considering! Hope you find your loved one!! I sware on god you will if you follow my instructions!
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Faire Maiden answered
The best way is to use Astrology; namely, a branch of Astrology called 'Synastry'. It takes the Birth Charts of the people involved and compares them looking for the strengths, weaknesses, compatibilities, and disharmonies. It looks beyond the 'in-loveness' stage of relationship to see if there is commitment and stability for the long-haul.
Should the Charts be compatible, and the couple wish to marry, then another Chart can be drawn, called an 'Election Chart', to give the best day and time to get married on.
SShould they then wish to buy/sell a house, car, start/sell a business, or conceive a child, an 'Election Chart' will tell the best time to begin these endeavors too.
To rely on one's 'feelings' when getting involved with these important decisions in life is not only short-sighted, but stupid, as life always moves in cycles. And nothing times cycles like Astrology.
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Anonymous answered
It's really easy - stop looking for it! You don't find "the one" they find you! And someone who might not appear to be "the one" could become it!
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Wesley answered
Hard to answer you can walk around a corner and their is the one or you travel all over the place and you find the one on the other side of the world .
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jon nothin answered
You don't just 'not look' for the one, but keep an eye out for anyone you may have a chance with. You will not know he is the one till you go out with him a few times at least.
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Sit back and wait.....the girl/guy will cross roads with you at some point. If you go out of your way to find love you may miss that person where as if you were patient you would have found them......good luck
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Finding that special person is never easy. But there's no excuse to be lonely. If you're not having much luck you can always try online dating. Online dating is getting so popular with hundreds of people signing up everyday. It's so easy. Once you've registered you just need to make a profile. The profile usually consists of the things you like. Once you've signed up you can search for exactly the right person for you. Search results can be filtered by many qualities such as location, tastes, personality and lots more preferences.
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Being honest is the best thing anyone can do! If you are not honest things in life can come back and bite you in the butt and maybe you will lose the ones that you love. On line dating is great! I found my husband of 5 years, online and our life is great!!
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Try as many relationships as you can, this sounds silly at first. But you don't want to think its all good with one person when in fact you could be much happier with another. "Grass is always greener.." and all that I know but you can never know what you're missing. Plus you'll learn a lot about yourself and other people. And don't be too fussy until you know what makes you happy. It takes time.
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If you just go with the flow. Sooner or later, youll find that special person. I believe there is a person for everyone out there. For some, there are two =]. I am 16. And I know you don't belive me.. But I have found the woman I love. And will spend my life with. Even our parents know I asked her to marry me.
ADVICE: Don't go looking for love. Let it come to you.
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Listen buddy i kno this sounds rude but ur only 16 and ive been there done that.
Ppl that are together for life from your age are like 1 in 1000 your hormones are just
raging like mine did when i was 16. U never know u can be that one in a 1000.
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Of course being attracted to each other is absolutely important however become friends first. Agree with each other that you will both take time to get to know each other before starting a sexual relationship. Many people rush into bed and don't spend enough time communicating and learning about each others qualities,values, wants and needs, likes and dislikes. I have found my special lady (wife) and believe that the time we spent in this way has lead to a very happy marriage.
     

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