I Think I'm In Love With My Wife's Sister What Do I Do?

There isn't a whole lot that you can do. Your feelings are your feelings but there are several things to consider before you move on.

1. Does she feel the same.
2. Is it just a sexual fixation (if you aren't mature enough to self evaluate the it probably is)
3. Is it the "idea" of being with her? (Does she have something you always wanted, is she smoking hot, etc)
4. Do you have the "I just want to take care of her" syndrome or some other form of pity for her?
5. Do you think it is really possible to have a relationship with her considering the impact it will have on both of your families?

I think if you can both answer these questions honestly and decide that it is true love and that you are going to move forward, I would go slow. The passion in these situations can run high, burn fast and run out of gas like a tornado leaving a lot of damage behind. If you both just want to have an affair, then have an affair.

If this is the route you take don't be careless; be cautious about contacting each other for personal rendezvous, gifts and other communication. Get to know one an other, if it is love that is going to go the distance then don't rush it.

I don't believe that you are in love with her, at least, that depends on your definition of love. You may be fixated with her, or lust after her, but I don't think that you love her and if you do, you may have been spending too much time with her to be a health amount and keep and maintain a good relationship with your wife.

You need to think very carefully if the relationship or love with the sister is really filling a gap in your life that would otherwise be filled by something or someone else. You need to think very carefully about this because you could destroy not only your relationship but seriously damage the familial relationship between your wife, your sister and her family.

Are you being selfish or is this really love, does she feel the same? Maybe chat to a counsellor before you make any big decisions, there are MASSIVE ramifications for you.

Run like a bat out of hell before you screw up !! It is s a sure road to never ending misery, pain, and tears. Trust me on that one.

I think I'm also in love with my wife's sister!