How Can I Satisfy A Girl Sexually?

Satisfying a girl sexually is the subject of some serious debate. Everyone has their own idea of what makes the perfect lover, so often just being open and talking about your partner's sexual desires will give you a boost in the bedroom.

Having said that, talking about sex can be a bit of a mood killer, so here are a few hints that you might want to bring into your 'game plan'.

How to satisfy a girl in bed

If you ever ask a girl what she wants in bed, she'll often have a long list of things that her partner (or partners) aren't getting right. My advice with any sexual dialogue is to forget about the negatives and find out what she actually WANTS.
 
Here's a list of the things to keep in mind:

• Make love to her 'whole body'

This probably sounds like the type of sex-tip men steal from reading Cosmopolitan or some other girly magazine, but it actually works. Kissing her all over, from her head to her ankles is guaranteed to turn her on. How you kiss is just as important as what you kiss, so no clumsy slobbering please.
Tease her with kisses around her inner thigh, the small of her back and other sensitive areas. Use your hands to explore her body, and try staying away from her vagina for as long as possible. The more you get into this, the more it'll drive your woman crazy.

• Oral sex is a turn-on

If there's one thing that women always complain about, it's that their man doesn't go 'south with the mouth' often enough. Women enjoy oral sex just as much as men do, and yet I'm sure statistics would find that women end up performing far more oral sex than men. Try balancing that figure out.

• Give her something new in bed

Being spontaneous is really good. Catching her off-guard is a definite turn-on. If your sex-life is usually gung-ho and aggressive, try slowing things down and being gentle. If you always have careful and considerate sex, try turning it up a notch or two.

• Noisy sex is good sex

This is probably a point that divides people. Some people are naturally noisy in bed, some are a little more timid. I find that making noise during sex works like a form of primal communication. The 'ooohhs and aaahhs' are a way of letting a partner know they are doing a good job and hitting the right spot, so I'd encourage noisy sex. This is especially true for oral sex where you will obviously find it difficult to read someone's facial expressions.

• Be open and adventurous

In my opinion, the key to a healthy and fulfilling sex-life is being open and adventurous. Talk about fantasies, make sex fun. I find that having a drink and a giggle before bed really gets the juices flowing and helps break down the barriers.