I'm Gay And I Like My Friend, But He's Not Gay. How Do I Tell Him That I Like Him?

It sounds to me as if you're in a really difficult position!

If you share your true feelings with your friend, he might react in a negative way - and this could destroy the friendship you already have.

On the other hand, he might be very understanding - and this could strengthen your relationship (and who knows, maybe even lead to something else).

Should I tell my friend that I'm gay and I like him?
To be honest, I have a feeling that the answer might already lie within you! You probably know your friend better than most people, and you should be able to predict how he will react.

I also wonder how necessary it is for you to tell him that you're attracted to him right away. Even if you've made your mind up to tell him that you're gay, surely telling him that you like him will only add to the tension and awkwardness.

I've fallen in love with my straight friend
Although your question sounds rather complicated, I'd recommend you approach it as two separate issues:

• Firstly, you need to decide how to come out to your friend.

• Secondly, you need to figure out how to tell your friend that you like him.

Coming out is never easy, especially to people who might have a different opinion of you once they find out about your sexuality.

I'd recommend tackling this issue before you even start telling your friend how you feel about him specifically.

Well, actually you could tell him and you never know, he might actually end up liking you back. It has happened to someone I know, and it could happen for you...So, yeah. Or, if you know that he won't (which I don't think you would know entirely) then you don't have to tell him. Just, think how you would tell him...Oh, and I think it would help you if you found out what he thinks about gays, if he doesn't like that then I probably wouldn't say because you like your friendship, sooo yeah...

It will not help you if you tell him the true. He will hate you. And you will be alone. But for the better choice is "not telling him about what you thought" But you should keep this secret love in your heart, and try to be close with him as much as you can. Try to be his only friend. So that you can take care of the one you love by secret action. Finally, you can understand about him whether he feels the same way as you. If yes, that is your chance. Catch his heart. Because I understand, love is happening for a reason. It doesn't care "Male or Female" But the most important thing is happiness. You find the happiness with him , let it be. It is not your mistake.