lakeesha Hennessy Williams answered
I guess the answer to this question really comes down to context. If you think that sending her the card will cause trouble, then I'd probably stay away.If it's just a harmless gesture, then I'd say go ahead!
Sending a Valentine's card to someone that has a boyfriend
Valentines Day is meant to be fun and light-hearted.
I remember when I was still at school (many years ago), everyone in my class would exchange Valentines cards.
At the end of the day, the girls in my class would compare how many cards they'd each received.
In this context, a Valentine's card was just a bit of fun. Yes, there was a bit of flirting going on, but no-one seemed to read into it too much.
On the other hand, if you think that giving a card to a girl might cause problems, I'd suggest you do the honorable thing and give the card to someone else.
Inappropriate Valentine's cards
There are a number of scenarios that I can think of where giving a card to a girl might cause more problems than it's worth:
If you have feelings for a girl who has a boyfriend, this is a whole separate issue. I'd recommend talking to her, rather than using a card, if this is the case.
Sending a Valentine's card to someone that has a boyfriend
Valentines Day is meant to be fun and light-hearted.
I remember when I was still at school (many years ago), everyone in my class would exchange Valentines cards.
At the end of the day, the girls in my class would compare how many cards they'd each received.
In this context, a Valentine's card was just a bit of fun. Yes, there was a bit of flirting going on, but no-one seemed to read into it too much.
On the other hand, if you think that giving a card to a girl might cause problems, I'd suggest you do the honorable thing and give the card to someone else.
Inappropriate Valentine's cards
There are a number of scenarios that I can think of where giving a card to a girl might cause more problems than it's worth:
- If she has a boyfriend, he might get jealous- and this can lead to all sorts of problems
- It may also make the girl in question feel awkward or guilty
If you have feelings for a girl who has a boyfriend, this is a whole separate issue. I'd recommend talking to her, rather than using a card, if this is the case.
