I'm currently dating a girl but its going nowhere.We don't hang out and barely talk.Idk if I want to give her up,but theres another girl who I have a shot with.Shes very popular/pretty and idk what shes trying for.Looking for advice?

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Pepper pot Profile
Pepper pot answered

Try asking the current girlfriend out somewhere nice,  because if you are not meeting up or talking, then your not really dating.

Danae Hitch Profile
Danae Hitch answered

Max, if you're going to have a girlfriend, you need to choose someone that is at least compatible with you, someone that you have things in common with, someone that you can talk to and share things with. Otherwise, what's the point of having a girlfriend? If you don't feel you're compatible with your current girlfriend, then by all means, break things off with her - and do it the right way - face to face - so if she has any questions, you have the opportunity to answer them - gently - without hurting anyone's feelings.

As far as the 2nd girl goes, just because she is pretty and popular, doesn't mean anything. Underneath the make-up, she could be a very lonely girl. So don't chat her up just because she is popular and she will be good eye candy on your arm at school. So my vote is to find a girl that you have things in common with and the heck with fussing over how pretty / popular she is.

Lilly Gray Profile
Lilly Gray answered

KILL THE RELATIONSHIP. If it's goin nowhere buddy, kick it off. Don't want it. I'm 16, have been in a similar position. Just show your disinterest and break up with her. Although, be careful getting with someone else too quick. Might stir up a bit of bitter sshit. X

Darik Majoren Profile
Darik Majoren answered

If this relationship was in the hospital they would already be calling the next of kin for permission to "Pull the Plug" . . . It sounds like it has been "Brain Dead" for quite some time now . . . Time to let it go and harvest the organs (Heart . . . Etc.) to be used in a real relationship.

I have no idea why I went all "Grey's Anatomy" Drama with that analogy . . . Not a clue.

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