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I'm straight and have a boyfriend, but there's this girl who has admitted to wanting to hook up with me. She also invited me over to her house to drink and I think we would end up doing something. How should I approach this?

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Jann Nikka Profile
Jann Nikka answered

You ask this question before.

We told you "Cheating" is Cheating.

Darik Majoren Profile
Darik Majoren answered

If this is something you would like to pursue then consider this . . . You are not married, but you do seem to have committed yourself to your boyfriend. With this in mind, perhaps you might consider an "open Relationship" with your boyfriend.

How you choose to share yourself with someone is something very personal, but it also can set a precedence in regards to how you see relationships and their commitments.

Make sure to "put yourself in their place" . . . If the roles were reversed how would you want to be treated and communicated with regarding a similar situation?

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Danae Hitch answered

If you have a boyfriend, you are not "free" to mingle with another person. If you think that because your boyfriend is not around that you get a "pass" to do whatever the heck you feel like doing, do everyone a favor and break up with the boyfriend.

Then you will be free to play the field as much as you want. Deliberately cheating on someone is NOT COOL.

Do me a favor. Reach into your back pocket, yep, that one. See the morals and value system that was taught to you as you were growing up?  Use them.

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