My ex came back. He seemed like he made an effort in the beginning.. not anymore? more below.
If you are gonna give people second chances it's got to be because they truly changed...... I don't think he changed much. Sorry.
we started talking again about two weeks ago. He made it an effort to tell me he loved me, wanted me and never wanted to lose me again. Now those comments have stopped and there hasnt really been much of an effort to see me. I love him and I do believe he loves me back but I cant help but feel like he got me back into his life just so no one else could have me.
He may "say" he loves you .. But words are empty if there is no behaviour to support them.
His behaviour is not supporting his words .. So what does that tell you?
If you are not compatible as a couple .. Then it makes little sense to stay with someone for all the wrong reasons.
It feels like he has problem on letting go of something he have before.. And just saying to you that he loves you.
Never be so desperate to be in a relationship that you are willing to compromise your values just so you don't have to be alone. It's never worth it. Don't settle for less.
