Why is he making some romantic moves on me, then after a minute, he'll be with another girl? Ugh! I don't even know if I already like him.

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Danae Hitch Profile
Danae Hitch answered

Generally speaking, young teenaged boys are still just that - boys. Their hormones are all over the place; they cruise venues looking for a girl to chat up, flirt with, etc., just to get a response. When they get a response from one girl, sometimes, it's such a heady feeling, that they want to feel that again, so they find another girl to chat with and be flirty.

Simply speaking, it's like a mating dance. You find someone, chat with them a bit, see what they're like, try out your moves, your "look", your words. You see what works and what doesn't.

You should watch this sometimes in the school cafeteria - watch both boys and girls and their interaction with each other. Read their body language and you can pretty much tell who likes who by how they're acting towards one another.

I don't put a lot of stock in high school flirtations because that's generally what they are. If you like a boy, talk with him. If not, tell him nicely that you're not interested and move on.

Pepper pot Profile
Pepper pot answered

Him making moves on other girls after hitting on you should push you further towards a decision as to whether you like him. He is obviously looking for a response, from any of the girls he I flirting with.

Caitlin BD Profile
Caitlin BD answered

He's a player! I've had some bad experiences with guys like this. If you're not looking for anything serious, that's okay, just try to ignore it. But if you are, try to move on from him and distract yourself with your friends and family until someone who is really worthy of you comes along (and believe me, they do come!) :)

Bikergirl Anonymous Profile

That is an easy question to answer .. He is testing waters .. So to speak .Β  If you don't know what that means .. He is trying his luck with anyone who seems receptive .. It's not "romance" he's after. He is not seriously interested in you .. Clearly

Michael Poland Profile
Michael Poland answered

That is the kind of guy that will leave you

while you are pregnant with his baby.

And you'll be lucky to ever see him again.

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