Telling a guy that because of him i could not clear my exams because i liked him and it affected me?

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Danae Hitch Profile
Danae Hitch answered

You asked a similar question yesterday. What's changed since then? Learn how to manage your time and you'll be fine. If you don't learn this lesson, you're doomed to repeat it.

Cindy  Lou Profile
Cindy Lou answered

Grades and achievement is considered one of the most important things in India, and I am assuming you're from India.

But you can do both, get high marks and have a boyfriend, if you handle your time wisely. People do it everyday there. They have relationships that lasts for years, even long distance relationships,  while they finish their academic goals first.

So this is obviously bothering you. Get ahold of him and tell him you have feelings for him and would like to continue with what started earlier,  while explaining your grades and levels need to come first.

Good luck .

Bikergirl Anonymous Profile

Make no mistake .. Your grades are not because of "him".  If you want to lay blame then lay blame where blame is due .. On YOU.  It is your responsibilty to do the work and to concentrate and focus on your school work.  Self control is how you deal with distractions like a childhood crush .. Perhaps THAT is what you need to work on as well as your school work.

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Tarushi Goyal
Tarushi Goyal commented
i never blamed him but then i stopped talking to him by saying that we cant because i cant concentrate on my studies beacuse of the fights and said that dont feel guilty on your part ever..nad i told everything in anger it just came out from my mouth i dint want to tell him the real reason.
Tarushi Goyal
Tarushi Goyal commented
so telling him that was right??
Tarushi Goyal
Tarushi Goyal commented
i even told him that its not your fault fault is mine dont feel guilty on your part i should have maintained distance

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