I'll be 31 soon and I'm still a virgin. Is that alright?

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Didge Doo Profile
Didge Doo answered

Your body, your choice.  Of course its Ok.

Lilly Gray Profile
Lilly Gray answered

It's alright if you are alright with it. If you are not ashamed, which you have no reason to be, it's totally alright. Being a virgin shouldn't really affect you, unless you want it to. :)

Tom  Jackson Profile
Tom Jackson answered

Why would you think it's not all right?

LATE EDIT:

Consider this question:  "I'm 31 and I have never performed the Heimlich maneuver on anybody.  Is that all right?"

Well, if you haven't been around someone who was choking, should you start hanging around restaurants so you can add "having done the Heimlich maneuver"  (or "having had sexual intercourse) to your resume?

My point is that if you "participate" in the "act,"  unless the hearts, minds, and bodies of each partner reach out to the other, you are probably going to wind up wondering why you bothered to have sexual intercourse.

(And I'm not correcting your spelling.  Either word (all right, alright) is OK---I'm just used to using "all right."  And here's the rule:

The form alright is a one-word spelling of the phrase all rightAlright is commonly used in written dialogue and informal writing, but all right is the only acceptable form in edited writing. Basically, it is not all right to use alright in place of all right in standard English.)

Roy Lovett Profile
Roy Lovett answered

Yes, of course it's alright. :)

Matt Radiance Profile
Matt Radiance answered

Unfortunately, this is not something i be able to answer. This is all about your comfort zone, feelings, emotions and principles. You need to be confidential about the decisions you make. If you felt and yet feeling this is the right path, you must keep it up. Your will is the only important matter in your life. Do as you please and follow what makes you happy.

1.This is your body, you make the decisions for it.

2.You never let societies whispers fills your life out.

3.If you never wanted it otherwise, that means you haven't been prepared physically and psychologically. And if you weren't ready yet, means you made the right decision.

4.Your act is a responsible one. You have waited for the right moment. And you should never let your guard down if you believed in such.

5.Your act is respectful one. You respecting yourself enough to not go out there and be random. You waited for the right person, you haven't found it yet and it's totally okay.

6.Any decision you make regarding this matter, it's all fine as long as you make the choice, only and only you. If you felt staying virgin is the right decision, then this is the right decision and you should be happy with yourself and never let others to distract you. You need to look deep within your feelings, the core of your emotions and see how you feel about it. As long as you feel comfortable with the decisions you make. Nothing else and no one else matters.

Barb Cala Profile
Barb Cala answered

First, it's no one's business if you're a virgin or not.  I would just do what's right for you and don't advertise your sexual experience.  It doesn't take any great skill to lose your virginity .. So it's hardly anything to take pride in.  It's more important for you to wait for the right person and have a good experience.

Twallgirl Wallace Profile

Absolutely, it's ok. Never let anyone make you feel otherwise. Save yourself for your husband. The bible tells us that sex is to be shared between husband and wife. Remember too that no one can push you to do something that you are not ready for. Stay prayerful and meditate on your choice.

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