Am I obsessed with my friend, do I have feelings for her, or am I just lonely?

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HappyTo BeHereTo answered

Hi Julie.  Welcome to Blurtit!  We really can't answer this.  We'd just be speculating. 

If you're feeling lonely, you can reach out to find more friendship connections. You can look around your school and city for clubs to join, or check for local activities and festivals to attend. 

I'm glad you've joined our community!  Asking, answering and chatting here is lots of fun!  We're always glad to make new friends. 

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Arthur Wright , Florida Paralegal with a BS degree in Social-Psychology, answered

First there is a difference between obsession and having feelings for someone with being "obsessed with someone" actually the worst thing you can do as it will consume your whole  life and all feelings go out the window.  Now you could be infatuated here with your friend which is a mixed bag of feelings and never sure how you really feel. But no matter how you feel about your friend, if your friend doesn't feel the same way about you as you do them, then its pretty much over before it even begins.  Only you can tell if youre feeling lonely but yes any of this could result from being lonely and youre grabbing onto someone close to you.  Stay close friends and see what happens in the near future but for now keep your feelings to yourself or you could end up chasing a good friend away.  Good luck

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