I am annoyed by people that always say they are happy and perfect, are you ?

No, why would I want to bring their thoughts down? Plus I know better. Most of the time someone who always says they are happy and perfect, they are actually hiding a very darkness only they know about. I feel bad for them more then get annoyed by them.

I've always preferred to be happy --- but "perfect"? I hardly think so.

No one is perfect. Anyone that says their life is always perfect is either in denial, or lying.  I for the most part am happy, but there are somethings in my life I wish were better, but I am not going to dwell on them. I rather focus on the good things in my life.

Dear Anne of Green,

No I am not annoyed...my experience is like Y&Y above...

There is a deep contentment radiating from some people but they will not often talk about it; if they do go on about it, you can bet there is some darkness they are running from...

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I feel bad for them, they are trying to live on the surface of life, we must eventually accept our own darkness and love ourselves anyway.

I've never nor will I be annoyed because someone says they're happy and perfect. I'm happy 😁 for them.

I don't know they're life.

Right now I'm happy 😄 and sleepy😴. I work very hard daily to be happy, healthy and at peace with myself and my surroundings. 

Hopefully you'll stop being😣 annoyed at me.

Yeah! Darn those happy people! They're better off just moping around while having nothing to do and accomplishing nothing. How dare they?!

What's the point of life anyway? Other than just to sit and wind down to some tunes from The Cure

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Why work hard and get fit, when you can just sit at home eating everything and anything you want?

Why work hard in school? Why go to college? Why have a career? Why work so hard to be self reliable and having the ability to take care of yourself? I say, we should just live on tree tops and feed off of wild vegetation.

Why be happy and positive? That only attracts people. People wanting to go out with you, people wanting to be your friend. Having more people in your life? That's just asking for trouble.

-Excerpt from the Diary of DDX former edgy 14 year old self.

Id really need at least one example to answer this one. And of course I am a bit sleep deprived but clearly im not "tired" 

Not always happy, no where near perfect!  But, satisfied!  No one is perfect, everyone has good and bad points.  That is what makes us interesting.  Last perfect person got nailed to a tree!

Why would you get annoyed because someone says that?  Are you jealous of them?  People say all sorts of things ... You can't let what they think bother you so much.

I'd definitely rather be happy....but it doesn't work that way for me all the time. Perfect? Me? Hardly.

Perhaps they are merely in a mode of acceptance, regarding themselves. Many take a life time to actually love themselves and accept both those things that make them excel as well as their shortcomings, they may have. Being able to truly analyze yourself is very difficult . . Especially when confronted by things you know are embedded in your nature . . . Acceptance of these things is difficult yet not impossible to achieve.

All are right there are no perfect people on earth, yet there are many happy people and they do not have a dark side that they are hiding. My personal happiness come  from obeying God.. Psalm 112:1 " Happy is the man who fears Jehovah, Who takes great pleasure in his commandments."

All the time, but I've decided to keep those kind of thoughts to myself.

Not really---I figure they just don't really understand their situation completely at that moment.

Yeah there a bit  to optimistic.