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He says he doesn't want a relationship, yet doesn't want me seeing anyone else. When questioned, he said "relax & see what happens." What's up?

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HappyTo BeHereTo Profile

He sounds controlling, all take and no give.  You aren't in a relationship.  He has no right to tell you to be faithful to something that doesn't exist. 

How does this make you feel?  If the answer isn't "uplifted," end it.  You can truly relax and enjoy what happens when you're with a better boyfriend.

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Tom Jackson answered

Tell him you aren't sure that a relationship with him can work out if he feels that way.

If he protests, suggest that he just  "relax & see what happens."

PJ Stein Profile
PJ Stein answered

Is he seeing other people? If so RUN! If not he may just be trying to figure things out. That is fine as long as he doesn't take too long to do so. All I can really tell you is follow your gut and not what you think your heart is telling you.

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