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A girl at school thinks me and my friends like her but we don't. What shall we do?

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Matt Radiance Profile
Matt Radiance answered

Don't even think about it. Let her be free with her thoughts. It doesn't matter what others think about some other people in their head. But if she bothered you, treat nicely, be kind, polite & respectful & explain your feelings without being harsh. At the end you might stay friends or end up being friends or either way. Just one thing is important. "don't break any heart" 

"Be kind whenever possible, it is always possible" - Dalai Lama

Dakota  Mackenzie Profile

Don't do anything mean... I'd get upset if people I thought were my friends actually hated me. And wouldn't you?

I totally get your situation. There is this one freshman I talk to at school, he sits with us at lunch, I can't really stand him but I'm still nice ;p

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Maggie Trains
Maggie Trains commented
Thank you! It's just shes in none of our lessons, and when we talk about private things (typical teenage crushes and stuff) she always listens in. We would never be mean to her Im not that kinda person its just getting us down.
Dakota  Mackenzie
Dakota Mackenzie commented
The freshman I was talking about did the same thing, I was talking about my crush and he asked "wait who is it?" And wouldn't stop asking until I told him so he'd be quiet xD... You could do what my friends and I do (we don't necessarily like this guy) and tolerate her to an extent. If she oversteps, it's okay to be honest and say something. If it's done in a respectable manner ;3 That way there are no hurt feelings. :)
Sharron Prestcott Profile

If she thinks you and your friends like her something must have given her that impression.

What does it hurt for you to be kind to her?  You can talk to her and possibly include her in one or two of your activities.

Try to imagine what it would be like if you were that girl!

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