My friend isn't doing so well, he needs cheering up, badly and some help.. Is there anything I can do? (he's depressed and pondering suicide.. I can't lose anyone else.. Please.)

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Luke Reine Profile
Luke Reine answered

It's depression and you can't really help something like that... Show him you support him and that you'll always be there. ♡

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Theodore Putnam
Theodore Putnam commented
Tell him this, i found it online and made some tweaks to it: "Yes, i fyou leave then the world will keep turning, the sun will keep rising, and the stars will still apear. But what will also happen is your schoolmates will think of you as the person who was defeated by the pressure. Think of how your father will see the empty spot at the dinner table and get a deadend look in his eyes. Think of how your mother will pass your room and get teary eyed because of the empty spot in her heart. A diamond is a hunk of coal that survived a lot of heat and pressure. So don't give up. Your family needs you, heck, i need you. Your my best mate, and i wil have lost something great if you give up. Ending your life doesn't stop it from getting worse. It stops it from getting better." Good luck, and tell me what happens!
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John Doe answered

Depression can be terrible for the person experiencing it. Most people have issues now and then with the "blues" but diagnosed depression is serious. Telling someone to "suck it up" or "get over it" isn't going to work. Some things that can help.....friendship, give your friend your "ear" listen without judgement, encourage your friend to see his/her doctor, medication can be very helpful with someone with depression, exercise....work out with your friend, or take a simple walk. Good luck!

Sharron Prestcott Profile

If you're really afraid he's suicidal then call the Suicide Prevention hotline they can tell you how to handle this. 

You can't just cheer him up it won't work, he's depressed and needs medical help.  Try to get him to call the helpline but if he won't then you call and they can put you in touch with the right people.  You can't deal with this on your own.

Nice Girl Profile
Nice Girl answered

The only thing you can do is go to him , hold him and tell him straight into the eye that why is he thinking such idiotic things an drag the doesn't care for anyone and is trying to kill himself , make him realise  who all are there for him , me him feel guilt and bad , Remus him his dreams and that life is so precious , and he has only one, tell him if he died then he will be the biggest cheater to all who care for him!

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Ty Hibb answered

I am so sorry to hear about your friend. I have read an article that gives 3 good reasons to go on living. Here they are:

Go On Living—Because Things Change
http://www.jw.org/finder?locale=en&docid=102014125&prefer=lang&srcid=share

Go On Living—Because There Is Help
http://www.jw.org/finder?locale=en&docid=102014131&prefer=lang&srcid=share

Go On Living—Because There Is Hope
http://www.jw.org/finder?locale=en&docid=102014132&prefer=lang&srcid=share

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