You don't!! The worst thing you can do here is to mix work life with your personal life. Its not always easy to separate the two at times but with time, one learns how to do this. Like my Martial Arts Teacher, years ago told me, "be where you are" as you can't be in 2 places at once so worry about handling the situation where youre at. Learn how to use work or vice versa to give you a new outlook at your life's everyday challenges. Just believe and you can do it !! Good luck
