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I think my boyfriend's family (mainly parents) hate me. Help me what can I do!?

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Rooster Cogburn , Rooster Cogburn, answered

Parents are always going to be that way around their little boy or girl. Just when you're around them, be on your best behavior and use all the manners you have. Takes a while to break the ice with parents as I'm one myself. Prove to them what a great person you are and things will work out. You'll see.

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Jodie Impey
Jodie Impey commented
Than you am I am always well mannered with them I never do anything rude to them they have known me for awhile now and they still go out of their way to stop my boyfriend from seeing me even though they claim to really like me
Rooster Cogburn
Rooster Cogburn commented
Give it some more time. Don't know how old you are but it takes parents time to accept their boy seeing a girl. Have patience. You can do it ! :)
Catherine Howard Profile

Try to take some time to get to know the parents.  Things are usually easier in a relationship when the effort is made to get along. 

Usually getting to know the parents is as simple as saying hi, asking them how they are doing, and being polite.  When other, good conversation starters pop up take them.  Act mature, don't yell, always be polite and maybe they will end up changing their mind.  With some hard work and luck you will end up being the nice girl they adore. 

Be careful not to do things they don't like in front of them in their home.  That is usually a reciepe for them to hate you forever.

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Jodie Impey
Jodie Impey commented
Thank you. They have known me for quite a while now. I'm always round their home they always say they like me but something my boyfriend father will say things to put me down about myself. I have gone home many occasions crying because I feel they don't like me and feel the have something against me even when I'm kind polite and always ask if they need help cooking dinner or simple things like that.
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Asma Jamil answered

Try to give his parents as much respect and love as you can. You can make them to start liking you only by your good behavior. Just try and try and try again.

On the other hand If they don't accept you, but your boyfriend loves you enough to support you even if his parents are against. You should really not think about this matter alot. Just be with him.

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