Good chance you could open a huge can of worms here as if she doesn't want it clean and you do it, she could take it as an insult that youre accusing her of keeping a dirty house, which would be true. While it would be a nice gesture, its a catch-22 situation as to how she will react as on the other hand she could appreciate it but personally I think you need to ask your BF what he thinks
I wouldn't do anything major. It might be seen as an invasion of her privacy as well as insulting.
I would definitely clean her house! Maybe she just needs some motivation. If you work hard on cleaning her house, she will be guilt into keeping it clean (unless she has no morals!).
Clean where you're staying, or what you are using and leave the rest. This is could be your future mother-in-laws toes you are stepping on. It's up to her son to ask whether she wants help with housework, not yours.
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