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I'm 16 and I'm very horny. I doesn't have any girlfriends...Sometime I will masturbate,watching porn, and do sexual harassment...is that normal? any tips to get rid of these problems?

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Masturbation is entirely normal for a boy of your age. But from the sounds of it you’re probably overdoing it.  Trouble is - when you watch a lot of porn - you get hooked on it.  So first thing is to ditch the porn- or if you can’t stop altogether then set yourself a limit of say 2 or 3 times a week. Then try and stop altogether.

I don’t know what you mean by “you do sexual harassment!'  Are you speaking to girls on the phone, or meeting them, or what? 

I looked up sexual harassment and it says it could mean a lot of things. Some of them are

  • Unwanted pressure for sexual favors
  • Unwanted touching, leaning over, cornering, or pinching
  • Unwanted sexual looks or gestures
  • Unwanted letters, phone calls or materials of a sexual nature

I really hope you’re not into any of these things because if you are then you have a problem because it will only lead to trouble. Big trouble.

You say you haven’t got a girlfriend - but believe me that won’t happen if you carry on doing ‘sexual harassment‘ 

The key word here is unwanted,  Girls will respond to you when they feel you love and respect their space, their bodies and their minds

Get out more with your friends, do some sport, get busy, get a part-time job.  If you stop thinking about yourself and start thinking about other people you will become the kind of boy girls want to date.

In the meantime...these problems  If you think they are serious you should get help.  You could speak to your doctor - its a bit embarrassing but better that than ending up with real problems. This site is for 16-25 year olds and might be good to have a look.

http://www.thesite.org

I hope you find a relationship and have a happy satisfying life. Good luck

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