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Why is love very important for everyone?

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Lia Tan answered

To put it simply, love makes people feel good about themselves. It makes them feel like they are appreciated and valued by others and that our life is actually worth living, because we have others to live them for. Also it makes them feel like they can have someone to rely on and trust, which also makes us feel good.

Theoretically, they aren't important since logically and physically, we can survive without love. But humans also have mental health and love is just one of the few things that we need to be mentally healthy.

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Lia Tan commented
I don't think the kind of love really matters. Whether you are heterosexual or homosexual, I think that love is the same. In both cases, you care about each other, you appreciate one another, and you trust each other. So why should it matter if it's between a man and woman or two women or two men when you're getting the same things out of both?

Plus I also feel that love applies to love between parent and child, siblings, and friends. Feeling appreciated, valued, and trusted can also be felt through platonic love as well as romantic love.

Considering how homosexuality happens, no one knows for sure. Scientists and psychologists try to explain it, but they're all just theories and trends. There is no mighty explanation on why there are homosexuals and heterosexuals and honestly, I don't really care on why. Aside from sexual orientation, they're pretty much all the same: they're humans.
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Lia Tan commented
And I don't think that making love to a lesbian is a mistake. As long as there is consent (like with making love in general), then there shouldn't be anything wrong.

One way to make people not feel bad for being homosexual is to address on what makes it wrong and what makes it right. There is no definite answer to that. Some may say that it's wrong because love is supposed to be between a man and a woman. How do they know this? If it's because God said so, then ask them how do they know that their God actually said this? I'm not going to get deep into this because it may raise some controversy. But I'm just saying that the way to win an argument with someone (doesn't matter the topic either) is to prove them wrong instead of proving you right. You don't have to be right or wrong, just as long as they are wrong then you win.
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Jess Taylor commented
Wow..!! Thanks so much for your answer. Eventually, I understand about it. Then I will advise my friend who is lesbian as well. She would be happy.
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ly fen chen answered

It's natural that we need love, as we are human being, we have sentiment and feeling, so "love" that 's important to us, if we have love then we can care about people, we can be a kind person, we can help others as well. Anyway to love and be loved is lucky and we feel happily with healthy as well, if we are a loving person.

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