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How can I get my dad to not be rude? HELP I was doing my homework and my sister was practicing her singing because she is in choir (like REALLY intense choir) and all of a sudden my dad yells ''shut up!!!"

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Yo Kass Profile
Yo Kass answered

As a dad, I can tell you that sometimes we're rude without meaning to offend or upset anyone.

Being a dad can be pretty stressful, and when you've got lots on your mind - sometimes the smallest thing can trigger an over-reaction.

That said, a dad is also responsible for teaching his kids about manners, patience, and how to respect others - so telling people to "shut up" doesn't sound like a great idea!

There are a couple of things you can do to get him to realize the error of his ways though:

1. Tell mom

2. The guilt trip - Go over to him when he's in a better mood and tell him how much his words hurt your feelings. Put on your best 'soppy eyes' and see how bad he feels then!

3. Write him a letter - for some reason, grown ups seem to take written complaints more seriously. This is something that seemed to work when I was a kid anyway...

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Lia Tan
Lia Tan commented
All your suggestions are really great! I especially love the part about the letter.
Adila Adila
Adila Adila commented
LMFAO...If I gave a letter to my Dad he'd laugh in my face...LOL
cristina Emerson Profile

Hey there,
i would love to say that i like your question, you really loves your family.

sometimes it  happen in life , so don`t worry about it.

Take sometime and think why your dad do this. Solve this first.

Also you can talk to your mother too

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