It is difficult to guess why a married man would act this way without knowing all the facts, but two things cross my mind regarding what he could be up to:
- He is hoping to meet someone through Facebook and therefore doesn't want them to know he is married.
- He already has someone in his friends list that he is seeing/interested in, and either doesn't want to hurt her by posting happy family snaps, or doesn't want her to know about his wife.
It could also be that he feels the relationship he's in has simply "lost its spark", and he no longer feels like posting about it on social media.
For example, my friend is in a stale marriage, and it is very rare that she mentions her husband at all, I think she just doesn't like to be associated with him.
Her husband never mentions her either, but he talks to girls on Facebook and tells them how pretty they are, etc. It seems obvious that he is pretending he is single. He doesn't even mention his daughter on there, which I do find unforgivable!
For whatever reason, there are a lot of people who treat Facebook like a dating site, and this is what makes me think that this man may be doing the same. Hopefully, I am wrong.
For example, my friend is in a stale marriage, and it is very rare that she mentions her husband at all, I think she just doesn't like to be associated with him.
Her husband never mentions her either, but he talks to girls on Facebook and tells them how pretty they are, etc. It seems obvious that he is pretending he is single. He doesn't even mention his daughter on there, which I do find unforgivable!
For whatever reason, there are a lot of people who treat Facebook like a dating site, and this is what makes me think that this man may be doing the same. Hopefully, I am wrong.
