If You Could Only Choose One From These Two Choices Would You Rather Have People Hate You Or Feel Sorry For You?

Although people feeling sorry for me is not going to make me feel any better it might make them feel better than they would if they hated me ...hate is the worst force on earth.....the less of any the better...hate corrodes the vessel that carries it....so for them I will choose empathy....as a exceedingly more positive emotion than hatred ...

I can't handle anyone hating me for any reason. I'd rather take pity. Especially if it includes free hugs :D

G'day Gvp,

Thank you for your question.

Feel sorry for me as long as it is temporary.

Regards

Socrates said it the best.  I've been hated and pitied, neither is pleasant, but when people pity you they are nice to you and aren't mean to you like they are when they hate you.  If you hold your head up during a time you need pity, they tend to pity you less, and respect you more.

Neither one.

Feel srry! They would be nice to you. I hope! I really don't know

I'd rather have hate....then cause they hate me so bad, they'd start to feel sorry for me, cause they know I don't have friends. This way, I'll get both.

I already have enough people hating me, it doesn't bother me at all. But I loathe people pitying me.

I would rather have a person hate me. It really would not bother me if a person hated me...they are probably just jealous and if they are not...then I guess I really don't need anything to do with them..just brush it off, there are so many people in the world that like me so one less person isn't so bad. I don't want people to feel sorry for me in any way at all. I am where I am because of my actions.

I play the victim very well, I will take feel sorry please.

I'd rather be despised than pitied...I despise pity!