lakeesha Hennessy Williams answered
In my opinion, the answer is yes. Guys might not generally be as perceptive as women, but I reckon they'll be able to tell when a girl seems too 'desperate'.
I don't think many girls give gifts to guys that they like, so maybe you should look at better ways to express your feelings.
Can guys tell if a girl is desperate?
To answer this question, I'll have to go all the way back to prehistoric times!
Guys in prehistory were hunters. Their instinct was to go out there, chasing the juiciest meat they could find.
In many ways- things haven't evolved all that much. Guys still like the idea of chasing after women, and they are usually attracted by the ones that act like they are the hardest to catch. In their brains, it makes it look like the reward at the end will be greater!
If a girl makes herself look too willing or easy, this will send out signs that there might be something wrong with her.
How to attract men without seeming desperate
If you're giving a guy gifts and doing things most girls wouldn't do, he may start asking himself 'why is she resorting to this?' It'll make a guy question what is actually going on. He may starting wondering what is so wrong with you that you need to rely on gifts to attract him.
The best thing to do if you want to attract a guy is to tease him. Show him how funny, cool, and sexy you can be- but don't let him enjoy it fully. Let him get a glimpse of the party, but don't give him an invite until he's earned it!
I don't think many girls give gifts to guys that they like, so maybe you should look at better ways to express your feelings.
Can guys tell if a girl is desperate?
To answer this question, I'll have to go all the way back to prehistoric times!
Guys in prehistory were hunters. Their instinct was to go out there, chasing the juiciest meat they could find.
In many ways- things haven't evolved all that much. Guys still like the idea of chasing after women, and they are usually attracted by the ones that act like they are the hardest to catch. In their brains, it makes it look like the reward at the end will be greater!
If a girl makes herself look too willing or easy, this will send out signs that there might be something wrong with her.
How to attract men without seeming desperate
If you're giving a guy gifts and doing things most girls wouldn't do, he may start asking himself 'why is she resorting to this?' It'll make a guy question what is actually going on. He may starting wondering what is so wrong with you that you need to rely on gifts to attract him.
The best thing to do if you want to attract a guy is to tease him. Show him how funny, cool, and sexy you can be- but don't let him enjoy it fully. Let him get a glimpse of the party, but don't give him an invite until he's earned it!
